September
9
2011

Address By The President To Joint Congress – Official Transcript

Address by the President to a Joint Session of Congress

United States Capitol
Washington, D.C.

THE PRESIDENT:  Mr. Speaker, Mr. Vice President, members of Congress, and fellow Americans:

Tonight we meet at an urgent time for our country.  We continue to face an economic crisis that has left millions of our neighbors jobless, and a political crisis that’s made things worse. 

This past week, reporters have been asking, “What will this speech mean for the President?  What will it mean for Congress?  How will it affect their polls, and the next election?”

But the millions of Americans who are watching right now, they don’t care about politics.  They have real-life concerns.  Many have spent months looking for work.  Others are doing their best just to scrape by — giving up nights out with the family to save on gas or make the mortgage; postponing retirement to send a kid to college. 

These men and women grew up with faith in an America where hard work and responsibility paid off.  They believed in a country where everyone gets a fair shake and does their fair share — where if you stepped up, did your job, and were loyal to your company, that loyalty would be rewarded with a decent salary and good benefits; maybe a raise once in a while.  If you did the right thing, you could make it.  Anybody could make it in America. 

For decades now, Americans have watched that compact erode.  They have seen the decks too often stacked against them.  And they know that Washington has not always put their interests first. 

The people of this country work hard to meet their responsibilities.  The question tonight is whether we’ll meet ours.  The question is whether, in the face of an ongoing national crisis, we can stop the political circus and actually do something to help the economy.  (Applause.)  The question is — the question is whether we can restore some of the fairness and security that has defined this nation since our beginning.    

Those of us here tonight can’t solve all our nation’s woes.  Ultimately, our recovery will be driven not by Washington, but by our businesses and our workers.  But we can help.  We can make a difference.  There are steps we can take right now to improve people’s lives. 

I am sending this Congress a plan that you should pass right away.  It’s called the American Jobs Act.  There should be nothing controversial about this piece of legislation.  Everything in here is the kind of proposal that’s been supported by both Democrats and Republicans — including many who sit here tonight.  And everything in this bill will be paid for.  Everything.  (Applause.)

The purpose of the American Jobs Act is simple:  to put more people back to work and more money in the pockets of those who are working.  It will create more jobs for construction workers, more jobs for teachers, more jobs for veterans, and more jobs for long-term unemployed.  (Applause.)  It will provide — it will provide a tax break for companies who hire new workers, and it will cut payroll taxes in half for every working American and every small business.  (Applause.)  It will provide a jolt to an economy that has stalled, and give companies confidence that if they invest and if they hire, there will be customers for their products and services.  You should pass this jobs plan right away.  (Applause.)  

Everyone here knows that small businesses are where most new jobs begin.  And you know that while corporate profits have come roaring back, smaller companies haven’t.  So for everyone who speaks so passionately about making life easier for “job creators,” this plan is for you.  (Applause.)

Pass this jobs bill — pass this jobs bill, and starting tomorrow, small businesses will get a tax cut if they hire new workers or if they raise workers’ wages.  Pass this jobs bill, and all small business owners will also see their payroll taxes cut in half next year.  (Applause.)  If you have 50 employees — if you have 50 employees making an average salary, that’s an $80,000 tax cut.  And all businesses will be able to continue writing off the investments they make in 2012. 

It’s not just Democrats who have supported this kind of proposal.  Fifty House Republicans have proposed the same payroll tax cut that’s in this plan.  You should pass it right away.  (Applause.)  

Pass this jobs bill, and we can put people to work rebuilding America.  Everyone here knows we have badly decaying roads and bridges all over the country.  Our highways are clogged with traffic.  Our skies are the most congested in the world.  It’s an outrage.   

Building a world-class transportation system is part of what made us a economic superpower.  And now we’re going to sit back and watch China build newer airports and faster railroads?  At a time when millions of unemployed construction workers could build them right here in America?  (Applause.)  

There are private construction companies all across America just waiting to get to work.  There’s a bridge that needs repair between Ohio and Kentucky that’s on one of the busiest trucking routes in North America.  A public transit project in Houston that will help clear up one of the worst areas of traffic in the country.  And there are schools throughout this country that desperately need renovating.  How can we expect our kids to do their best in places that are literally falling apart?  This is America.  Every child deserves a great school — and we can give it to them, if we act now.  (Applause.)  

The American Jobs Act will repair and modernize at least 35,000 schools.  It will put people to work right now fixing roofs and windows, installing science labs and high-speed Internet in classrooms all across this country.  It will rehabilitate homes and businesses in communities hit hardest by foreclosures.  It will jumpstart thousands of transportation projects all across the country.  And to make sure the money is properly spent, we’re building on reforms we’ve already put in place.  No more earmarks.  No more boondoggles.  No more bridges to nowhere.  We’re cutting the red tape that prevents some of these projects from getting started as quickly as possible.  And we’ll set up an independent fund to attract private dollars and issue loans based on two criteria:  how badly a construction project is needed and how much good it will do for the economy.  (Applause.)

This idea came from a bill written by a Texas Republican and a Massachusetts Democrat.  The idea for a big boost in construction is supported by America’s largest business organization and America’s largest labor organization.  It’s the kind of proposal that’s been supported in the past by Democrats and Republicans alike.  You should pass it right away.  (Applause.)

Pass this jobs bill, and thousands of teachers in every state will go back to work.  These are the men and women charged with preparing our children for a world where the competition has never been tougher.  But while they’re adding teachers in places like South Korea, we’re laying them off in droves.  It’s unfair to our kids.  It undermines their future and ours.  And it has to stop.  Pass this bill, and put our teachers back in the classroom where they belong.  (Applause.)

Pass this jobs bill, and companies will get extra tax credits if they hire America’s veterans.  We ask these men and women to leave their careers, leave their families, risk their lives to fight for our country.  The last thing they should have to do is fight for a job when they come home.  (Applause.)

Pass this bill, and hundreds of thousands of disadvantaged young people will have the hope and the dignity of a summer job next year.  And their parents — (applause) — their parents, low-income Americans who desperately want to work, will have more ladders out of poverty.

Pass this jobs bill, and companies will get a $4,000 tax credit if they hire anyone who has spent more than six months looking for a job.  (Applause.)  We have to do more to help the long-term unemployed in their search for work.  This jobs plan builds on a program in Georgia that several Republican leaders have highlighted, where people who collect unemployment insurance participate in temporary work as a way to build their skills while they look for a permanent job.  The plan also extends unemployment insurance for another year.  (Applause.)  If the millions of unemployed Americans stopped getting this insurance, and stopped using that money for basic necessities, it would be a devastating blow to this economy.  Democrats and Republicans in this chamber have supported unemployment insurance plenty of times in the past.  And in this time of prolonged hardship, you should pass it again — right away.  (Applause.)

Pass this jobs bill, and the typical working family will get a $1,500 tax cut next year.  Fifteen hundred dollars that would have been taken out of your pocket will go into your pocket.  This expands on the tax cut that Democrats and Republicans already passed for this year.  If we allow that tax cut to expire — if we refuse to act — middle-class families will get hit with a tax increase at the worst possible time.  We can’t let that happen.  I know that some of you have sworn oaths to never raise any taxes on anyone for as long as you live.  Now is not the time to carve out an exception and raise middle-class taxes, which is why you should pass this bill right away.  (Applause.)    

This is the American Jobs Act.  It will lead to new jobs for construction workers, for teachers, for veterans, for first responders, young people and the long-term unemployed.  It will provide tax credits to companies that hire new workers, tax relief to small business owners, and tax cuts for the middle class.  And here’s the other thing I want the American people to know:  The American Jobs Act will not add to the deficit.  It will be paid for.  And here’s how.  (Applause.)

The agreement we passed in July will cut government spending by about $1 trillion over the next 10 years.  It also charges this Congress to come up with an additional $1.5 trillion in savings by Christmas.  Tonight, I am asking you to increase that amount so that it covers the full cost of the American Jobs Act.  And a week from Monday, I’ll be releasing a more ambitious deficit plan — a plan that will not only cover the cost of this jobs bill, but stabilize our debt in the long run.  (Applause.) 

This approach is basically the one I’ve been advocating for months.  In addition to the trillion dollars of spending cuts I’ve already signed into law, it’s a balanced plan that would reduce the deficit by making additional spending cuts, by making modest adjustments to health care programs like Medicare and Medicaid, and by reforming our tax code in a way that asks the wealthiest Americans and biggest corporations to pay their fair share.  (Applause.)  What’s more, the spending cuts wouldn’t happen so abruptly that they’d be a drag on our economy, or prevent us from helping small businesses and middle-class families get back on their feet right away.  

Now, I realize there are some in my party who don’t think we should make any changes at all to Medicare and Medicaid, and I understand their concerns.  But here’s the truth:  Millions of Americans rely on Medicare in their retirement.  And millions more will do so in the future.  They pay for this benefit during their working years.  They earn it.  But with an aging population and rising health care costs, we are spending too fast to sustain the program.  And if we don’t gradually reform the system while protecting current beneficiaries, it won’t be there when future retirees need it.  We have to reform Medicare to strengthen it.  (Applause.) 

I am also — I’m also well aware that there are many Republicans who don’t believe we should raise taxes on those who are most fortunate and can best afford it.  But here is what every American knows:  While most people in this country struggle to make ends meet, a few of the most affluent citizens and most profitable corporations enjoy tax breaks and loopholes that nobody else gets.  Right now, Warren Buffett pays a lower tax rate than his secretary — an outrage he has asked us to fix.  (Laughter.)  We need a tax code where everyone gets a fair shake and where everybody pays their fair share.  (Applause.)  And by the way, I believe the vast majority of wealthy Americans and CEOs are willing to do just that if it helps the economy grow and gets our fiscal house in order.   

I’ll also offer ideas to reform a corporate tax code that stands as a monument to special interest influence in Washington.  By eliminating pages of loopholes and deductions, we can lower one of the highest corporate tax rates in the world.  (Applause.)  Our tax code should not give an advantage to companies that can afford the best-connected lobbyists.  It should give an advantage to companies that invest and create jobs right here in the United States of America.  (Applause.)   

So we can reduce this deficit, pay down our debt, and pay for this jobs plan in the process.  But in order to do this, we have to decide what our priorities are.  We have to ask ourselves, “What’s the best way to grow the economy and create jobs?”

Should we keep tax loopholes for oil companies?  Or should we use that money to give small business owners a tax credit when they hire new workers?  Because we can’t afford to do both.  Should we keep tax breaks for millionaires and billionaires?  Or should we put teachers back to work so our kids can graduate ready for college and good jobs?  (Applause.)  Right now, we can’t afford to do both.  

This isn’t political grandstanding.  This isn’t class warfare.  This is simple math.  (Laughter.)  This is simple math.  These are real choices.  These are real choices that we’ve got to make.  And I’m pretty sure I know what most Americans would choose.  It’s not even close.  And it’s time for us to do what’s right for our future.  (Applause.)      

Now, the American Jobs Act answers the urgent need to create jobs right away.  But we can’t stop there.  As I’ve argued since I ran for this office, we have to look beyond the immediate crisis and start building an economy that lasts into the future — an economy that creates good, middle-class jobs that pay well and offer security.  We now live in a world where technology has made it possible for companies to take their business anywhere.  If we want them to start here and stay here and hire here, we have to be able to out-build and out-educate and out-innovate every other country on Earth.  (Applause.)

And this task of making America more competitive for the long haul, that’s a job for all of us.  For government and for private companies.  For states and for local communities — and for every American citizen.  All of us will have to up our game.  All of us will have to change the way we do business. 

My administration can and will take some steps to improve our competitiveness on our own.  For example, if you’re a small business owner who has a contract with the federal government, we’re going to make sure you get paid a lot faster than you do right now.  (Applause.)  We’re also planning to cut away the red tape that prevents too many rapidly growing startup companies from raising capital and going public.  And to help responsible homeowners, we’re going to work with federal housing agencies to help more people refinance their mortgages at interest rates that are now near 4 percent.  That’s a step — (applause) — I know you guys must be for this, because that’s a step that can put more than $2,000 a year in a family’s pocket, and give a lift to an economy still burdened by the drop in housing prices. 

So, some things we can do on our own.  Other steps will require congressional action.  Today you passed reform that will speed up the outdated patent process, so that entrepreneurs can turn a new idea into a new business as quickly as possible. That’s the kind of action we need.  Now it’s time to clear the way for a series of trade agreements that would make it easier for American companies to sell their products in Panama and Colombia and South Korea -– while also helping the workers whose jobs have been affected by global competition.  (Applause.)  If Americans can buy Kias and Hyundais, I want to see folks in South Korea driving Fords and Chevys and Chryslers.  (Applause.)  I want to see more products sold around the world stamped with the three proud words:  “Made in America.”  That’s what we need to get done.  (Applause.)

And on all of our efforts to strengthen competitiveness, we need to look for ways to work side by side with America’s businesses.  That’s why I’ve brought together a Jobs Council of leaders from different industries who are developing a wide range of new ideas to help companies grow and create jobs. 

Already, we’ve mobilized business leaders to train 10,000 American engineers a year, by providing company internships and training.  Other businesses are covering tuition for workers who learn new skills at community colleges.  And we’re going to make sure the next generation of manufacturing takes root not in China or Europe, but right here, in the United States of America.  (Applause)  If we provide the right incentives, the right support — and if we make sure our trading partners play by the rules — we can be the ones to build everything from fuel-efficient cars to advanced biofuels to semiconductors that we sell all around the world.  That’s how America can be number one again.  And that’s how America will be number one again.  (Applause.)    

Now, I realize that some of you have a different theory on how to grow the economy.  Some of you sincerely believe that the only solution to our economic challenges is to simply cut most government spending and eliminate most government regulations.  (Applause.)

Well, I agree that we can’t afford wasteful spending, and I’ll work with you, with Congress, to root it out.  And I agree that there are some rules and regulations that do put an unnecessary burden on businesses at a time when they can least afford it.  (Applause.)  That’s why I ordered a review of all government regulations.  So far, we’ve identified over 500 reforms, which will save billions of dollars over the next few years.  (Applause.)  We should have no more regulation than the health, safety and security of the American people require.  Every rule should meet that common-sense test.  (Applause.) 

But what we can’t do — what I will not do — is let this economic crisis be used as an excuse to wipe out the basic protections that Americans have counted on for decades.  (Applause.)  I reject the idea that we need to ask people to choose between their jobs and their safety.  I reject the argument that says for the economy to grow, we have to roll back protections that ban hidden fees by credit card companies, or rules that keep our kids from being exposed to mercury, or laws that prevent the health insurance industry from shortchanging patients.  I reject the idea that we have to strip away collective bargaining rights to compete in a global economy.  (Applause.)  We shouldn’t be in a race to the bottom, where we try to offer the cheapest labor and the worst pollution standards.  America should be in a race to the top.  And I believe we can win that race.  (Applause.)

In fact, this larger notion that the only thing we can do to restore prosperity is just dismantle government, refund everybody’s money, and let everyone write their own rules, and tell everyone they’re on their own — that’s not who we are.  That’s not the story of America.   

Yes, we are rugged individualists.  Yes, we are strong and self-reliant.  And it has been the drive and initiative of our workers and entrepreneurs that has made this economy the engine and the envy of the world.

But there’s always been another thread running throughout our history — a belief that we’re all connected, and that there are some things we can only do together, as a nation.

We all remember Abraham Lincoln as the leader who saved our Union.  Founder of the Republican Party.  But in the middle of a civil war, he was also a leader who looked to the future — a Republican President who mobilized government to build the Transcontinental Railroad — (applause) — launch the National Academy of Sciences, set up the first land grant colleges.  (Applause.)  And leaders of both parties have followed the example he set. 

Ask yourselves — where would we be right now if the people who sat here before us decided not to build our highways, not to build our bridges, our dams, our airports?  What would this country be like if we had chosen not to spend money on public high schools, or research universities, or community colleges?  Millions of returning heroes, including my grandfather, had the opportunity to go to school because of the G.I. Bill.  Where would we be if they hadn’t had that chance?  (Applause.)  

How many jobs would it have cost us if past Congresses decided not to support the basic research that led to the Internet and the computer chip?  What kind of country would this be if this chamber had voted down Social Security or Medicare just because it violated some rigid idea about what government could or could not do?  (Applause.)  How many Americans would have suffered as a result? 

No single individual built America on their own.  We built it together.  We have been, and always will be, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all; a nation with responsibilities to ourselves and with responsibilities to one another.  And members of Congress, it is time for us to meet our responsibilities.  (Applause.)  

Every proposal I’ve laid out tonight is the kind that’s been supported by Democrats and Republicans in the past.  Every proposal I’ve laid out tonight will be paid for.  And every proposal is designed to meet the urgent needs of our people and our communities. 

Now, I know there’s been a lot of skepticism about whether the politics of the moment will allow us to pass this jobs plan — or any jobs plan.  Already, we’re seeing the same old press releases and tweets flying back and forth.  Already, the media has proclaimed that it’s impossible to bridge our differences.  And maybe some of you have decided that those differences are so great that we can only resolve them at the ballot box.  

But know this:  The next election is 14 months away.  And the people who sent us here — the people who hired us to work for them — they don’t have the luxury of waiting 14 months.  (Applause.)  Some of them are living week to week, paycheck to paycheck, even day to day.  They need help, and they need it now. 

I don’t pretend that this plan will solve all our problems. It should not be, nor will it be, the last plan of action we propose.  What’s guided us from the start of this crisis hasn’t been the search for a silver bullet.  It’s been a commitment to stay at it — to be persistent — to keep trying every new idea that works, and listen to every good proposal, no matter which party comes up with it. 

Regardless of the arguments we’ve had in the past, regardless of the arguments we will have in the future, this plan is the right thing to do right now.  You should pass it.  (Applause.)  And I intend to take that message to every corner of this country.  (Applause.)  And I ask — I ask every American who agrees to lift your voice:  Tell the people who are gathered here tonight that you want action now.  Tell Washington that doing nothing is not an option.  Remind us that if we act as one nation and one people, we have it within our power to meet this challenge.

President Kennedy once said, “Our problems are man-made –- therefore they can be solved by man.  And man can be as big as he wants.”

These are difficult years for our country.  But we are Americans.  We are tougher than the times we live in, and we are bigger than our politics have been.  So let’s meet the moment.  Let’s get to work, and let’s show the world once again why the United States of America remains the greatest nation on Earth.  (Applause.)

Thank you very much.  God bless you, and God bless the United States of America.  (Applause.)

Source: Whitehouse.gov

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September
8
2011

Great Scott Nike!!

As you may or may not know I’m a huge Back To The Future fan and I have been waiting for the day when Nike was going to come out with those shoes from Back to the Future part II. You know the one when Marty McFly goes to the future and tries to steal the almanac from the future but drops it and Biff picks it up and wreaks all sorts of havoc that ends up creating an almost alternate or parallel universe. Well they are finally releasing them and I MUST have them!!!

*Update*  1500 pairs of these will be auctioned on Ebay between Sept 8th -Sept 18th. All of the proceeds will go directly to the Michael J Fox foundation for Parkinson’s Research.

Check this video and pics out below:

Source: Nicekicks.com; Nike YouTube Channel; Doc Emmett Brown YouTube Channel


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August
26
2011

Mending Fences

I must admit that I am guilty of ruining a number of relationships. Most of them because of my aloofness. I’m a loner and often secluded into my own little world. Its not that I don’t want to be around or communicate with people I just don’t. I also have this thing with groups and large crowds so that doesn’t help. That’s a major phobia along with trust issues that prevent me from participating in certain interactions and situations.  I have decided that it is time for me to mend some of these broken fences. I need to reconnect with the people that I hold dear and hold me dear. Reconciliation is good for the mind, body and soul.

I’m starting with my parents. I don’t talk to them nearly as much as I should. I know that they probably feel some kind of way about it, especially my mom who has voiced how she feels about it to me on several occasions. Its not that I don’t want to keep in touch or something happened to make me not keep in touch or anything. I just don’t. I must do better.

Next is a host of friends that I met growing up and while in the military. I have drifted so far away from everyone I feel like I’m stuck on a lonely island. Again it was never an issue with why I stopped calling, texting or emailing. I just for some reason did.

Then there are the ones that did me wrong or that I may have done wrong. Its time to bury the hatchet and move on. I want to somehow make things right again if possible.

This has been pretty heavy on my mind for a while but the recent sudden and unexpected death of a friend kind of pushed it to the forefront.

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August
11
2011

Hey I’m back for a second

I’m back for a bit. I know I took an unplanned break but school is out for me, or at least its a week break between sessions, but Boogie starts kindergarten on Monday. I think I’m more excited about it then he is! He can’t wait to go to the “big kid” school.
Anyway I’ll use this time to catch you guys up in a series of posts to come. In the meantime I want you guys to support the other two blogs that I am affiliated with in my absence. They are youngwritersblock.org and a new political blog urbanepolitics.blogspot.com. I’m doing a number of things but all for the betterment of myself and my people.

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July
13
2011

Whuddup

Hey its been a little bit but I’m back. I’m back in school, actually started on the 3rd of July. One thing that I’ve learned from this online experience is that I learn so much better without a teacher than with on some subjects. I’m taking statistics or Business decision making as my course description describes it. My instructor is horrible! He speaks too quickly then gets mad when several people on the live chat ask him to slow down. He spends the majority of the hour talking about the people that don’t attend the live chats or view the archives or that don’t do any work in the class. Ummm… we’re here so obviously we care so how about teach us and email them your concerns. I kid you not, yesterday he spent 47 minutes talking about how people don’t want to do work or come to the chats or view the archived chats. The last 12 minutes he tried to rush through how to do the next assignment because he didn’t want to run overtime and risk being late to his next teaching session. Such bullshit! I really hate his teaching style and learn better from the book and his detailed notes.

I picked up a new part time job at Nike. I’m not sure how I’m going to juggle everything that’s going on with me right now. Between work, school, Boog’s activities and this job. It’ll be tough but I think I can work it out. I just need to focus and prioritize my time.

That’s about it for now.
Sincere

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June
29
2011

Congratulations to Univ of South Carolina Baseball For Back To Back Championships

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Congratulations to the University of South Carolina fighting Gamecocks baseball team. We made history by winning back to back College World Series! it feels so good to be a gamecock!!!

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June
26
2011

Bad Teacher Review

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So my wife and I went out on a date night on friday. Ya know the typical dinner and a movie. For the movie we decided to go see Bad Teacher. This was opening night and from the trailers I was thinking it would be good for a laugh. Not really a great movie but good.

I would have to say that I was a little disappointed. I think the movie had its funny moments but overall failed to reach or hit its mark.  I can’t go into too much detail without giving the story away but its basically about a slacker teacher that really doesn’t care about the students until she finds out that she can win money if her class does really well on the state exam. She needs the money to get some breast implants so that she can find a rich man to take care of her.

I would give this movie a C. Its definitely not something I would go to the movies to see. It’s a redbox, on demand, or Netflix view for sure. Save your $9.00 or however much it is in your area.

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June
15
2011

W.O.W. Don’t Be That One

In every group, clique, or circle of friends there is always that one idiot or, for lack of a better term, asshole. Don’t be that one.

I’m just sayin’
Sincere

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June
14
2011

Congratulations To My South Carolina Gamecocks Baseball Team!!

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June
1
2011

Time For A Break

I am getting a little burnt out over here. I’m tired of taking these classes right now. I am already 1 1/2 weeks behind simply because I don’t feel like doing the work. I’m sure that I’ll catch up but it’s going to cost me points on my final overall grade. I thought that online classes would be easier since I’m ‘learning at my own pace’ but nope. I have an assignment in each class due twice a week every week for 4 1/2 weeks. One week break (actually more like 4 – 5 days) before the next session starts. Then the process starts all over again. I’m taking 2 classes per session. I know some of you think that’s not a whole lot but think about it like this. I typically have a research paper due every week, 1,200 – 2,000 words and a discussion board post that’s 900 – 1,200 words not to mention the 400 word response to at least two of my classmates. Now take all that and double it! Both papers and discussion boards are due on the same day. The papers are usually on Monday and the discussion boards on a Friday or Saturday.

I know it seems like I’m complaining quite a bit but I’m really not. Im just a little burnt out and I need just one session break is all. I’ve been at this nonstop since August 2009. While I do have my associate of business (Nov 2010) to show for it, I’m just tired. I should be done with my BA in Business management in Mar 2012. Maybe I’ll take a break then.

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May
23
2011

Does It Really Get Better?

Okay. So here is my problem. Well, I take that back. Its not really a problem. My issue is with this whole ‘its okay to be gay’ campaign or movement or whatever is going on. While I am not homophobic I do feel some kind of way about it. Its not really the campaign or movement itself but moreso the whole attitude around it. Some of these campaigns are so aggressive that it makes me think ‘damn is something wrong with me for being heterosexual?’ Seriously.  I feel that way sometimes.

While I’m all for individuality and being comfortable I your own skin don’t make me feel bad because I’m not like you. I know people in the gay community are going to say that this happens to them all the time, which is true, but at the same time if you know how that makes you feel then why do that to someone else?

The whole it gets better campaign is cool but damn if it doesn’t make you feel worse if you’re getting picked on and you’re not gay. Does it get better for them? You know gay kids aren’t the only ones getting bullied and/or committing suicide. I’m not saying to stop with the whole it gets better thing but they should be mindful that there are more kids getting bullied for other things than being gay and they probably feel worse than the kids who chose to be gay.

I know that they say that they are born gay and all and for some of them that may be the case but definitely not all. I know of 3 couples that are gay because of past relationships gone bad and if the right person of the opposite sex came along they would be back to their heterosexual selves. Nowadays being gay is the cool thing to do in high school. Its not about a real relationship or feelings for the same sex it’s about what everyone else is doing on TVs or around campus. Seriously.

And on another topic closely related. I was talking to a Co worker of mine one day. We were just discussing different shows, actors and actresses that we liked. While we were discussing actresses she Brought up Nikki Blonsky. For those that don’t know, she has been in a number of movies such as hairspray, and some other crap I don’t Care to mention. Anyway we started talking about the roles that she played and realized that she always.played.fat people that were wronged because they were fat. She’s like an advocate for fat people. Seriously. I said that I didn’t like her because of this. I don’t like anyone to tell.me that I have to like them regardless of their size, gender, race or sexual preference. I don’t have to like you just because of that and I don’t have to accept you just because of that. Her whole stance is that I should.except her because she’s fat no matter what. No ma’am. Not happening. I like people regardless of what they look like or who they choose to date. That stuff doesn’t matter to me.

Now I know I’m going to catch a bit of flack for my statements but I really don’t care. I feel how I feel and I know I’m not alone. As I said I support the whole ‘it gets Berger’s campaign or movement but sometimes it does make me wonder if there is something wrong with me for being straight according to the videos in the campaign. Does it get better for kids that aren’t being bullied because they are gay but for other reasons?

I’m just sayin’
Sincere

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May
21
2011

My One On One

So Friday was my One on One with my manager. I must admit that I was a little very nervous when she sent me the email about it. I knew I hadn’t done anything wrong, that I know of, and so I was racking my brain for the hour until it was my time to meet. I was going through everything that could have happened since we last talked. That wasn’t much because we just had a serious talk like 2 weeks ago, right before we switched companies. * sidenote/back story: I work for the government as a contractor and the contract from my old employer ran out and was not renewed but picked up by a new company. That new company chose some of us to remain and got rid of the rest.* Since we are still in this probation period with my new company you can understand my nervousness and apprehension.

So now the time has arrived for me to go into this meeting. When I get in there and she tells me that it’s just something that she plans to do with everyone, My heartbeat starts to slow and I realize that I’m not in trouble for anything and that it’s just a ‘going through the motions’ type of meeting. Whew!! so anyway as we are talking, she asks me questions like what problems have I noticed throughout the office that she should be aware of or ways to fix them. Of course I have no clue because I tend to ignore the people around me. I ignore them because they are very immature at times and forget that they are in a professional setting and say and do things that are offensive and disrespectful.  I feel that the only way that I can keep my job is to ignore them because if I engage them I may end up saying or doing something that could cost me my job. I have bills to pay so I need that steady income.  so anyway back to the meeting,  since my manager and I are cool we end up just talking about different things that are going on that she is aware of that people don’t think she is and how she plans to handle them.

the funny thing is that at the end of the meeting we were talking about how certain people are jealous of other people’s relationship with her. We ended up going over like 10 minutes and as soon as we come out of her office one of the jealous people asks how come I got 10 extra minutes. It was pretty funny how it happened but if you’re reading this and didn’t find that funny then well, you had to be there. Anyway I love my manager and her style of managing and the one on one went great. I’ve never really had a manager that I actually liked and wanted to succeed.  The meeting went great and I really don’t know why I was so nervous about it to start with.

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May
20
2011

Friday Randomness – Homework and Phones

It’s finally the end of the work week and I am do ready for the weekend. Even though I will have no chance of relaxing since a new session of classes has started. Saturdays and Sundays are typically my days to get caught up on all the school work that I missed during the week. Like the live chats and assignments that are due. One good thing is that. This semester all of.my assignments are due on Saturdays and Mondays. This means that I can get my Saturday assignment done on the day of and do my Monday assignment on Sunday. Sounds like a great plan right? We’ll see…

So my phone has been acting kind of wonky lately. Which means that it’s time for a new phone, plus they have some new phones coming out that I want anyway. Since I’m not on a contract then I have to purchase my phone at full price. Since I switch phones just about every year I think that it might be better for me to get a contract so that I can get that discount. I’m not sure its really worth it though. I like the freedom of being able to go to whatever cell company I choose without worrying about a termination fee. Funny thing is, if I were to get the.same plan on contract it would be more expensive then if I just stay off contract. Go figure.

So far the front runners are the LG G2X or the HTC Sensation. The Sensation doesn’t come out until June and I really need a phone like yesterday! Ten again June is right around the corner so I might wait.

That’s all for now,
Sincere

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