Is It Really Better?

Okay so I decided to do a video as well for this one.

Is it Really Better? from Sincere on Vimeo.

Do you guys really think it’s better to have loved someone and lost them than to have never loved someone at all? I’m more inclined to disagree with that. I mean I understand that at least you were able to experience the feeling of love but what about the feeling after you’ve lost that love? That’s something that you wouldn’t have experienced had you not loved in the first place. I do believe that love is a magical and wonderful feeling but at the same time it can be one of the worst feeling ever!! Have you ever loved someone more than they loved you or worse have you ever loved someone that you know in a million years will never love you the same way you love them? I have done both and when I realized it I felt 100 times worse than before I fell in love with them.

I don’t know I guess it’s really all about how you fell in love and how you fell out of love with that particular person. It has to be on an individual case by case basis.

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6 Comments to “Is It Really Better?”

By the78msj, February 2, 2010 @ 8:39 AM

I think love is a wonderful thing as well but mix that with unstable creatures such as men and women and pow instant fuckery. Face it as long as humans which are flawed creatures dabble in the emotion that is so charged with expectations wants and needs it is going to be a bumpy ride regardless what you have to do is wrap that charmin around your heart and limbs and prepare for whatever happens because they don’t call it FALLING in love for just shits and giggles now
By Sincere, February 2, 2010 @ 9:45 AM

Yeah I love the feeling of being in love but when its over its over. If I never fell in love then the feeling of falling out of love wouldn’t be bad because I wouldn’t have experienced it. Ya dig?
By Nena, February 4, 2010 @ 7:58 PM

In the midst of angst I may say that I’d rather not love than loose. Looking back however I’d have to say that loosing love (or lack thereof) has opened me up to appreciate the “right” kind of love.

Interesting view. I’d like to hear more!
By Sincere, February 5, 2010 @ 7:36 AM

Hey Nena!!!
I see your point. I guess from my situations of falling in and out of love it didn’t really make me appreciate the right kind but it made me more skeptical of finding another love period. Ya know? When I fall in love its usually quickly and head over heels type. I think I am more in love with the feeling of being in love than the actual person. What can I say, I’m an emotional kind of guy! Lol Anyway, when I fall out of love I do it just as hard though so it makes me weary or skeptical to feel that way again. I truly think love is my drug of choice and I am addicted though so no matter how high or low it makes me I’m still addicted.
By MrsGrapevine, February 8, 2010 @ 10:32 PM

I think it’s better to have known what love is. Not the lost, but that feeling of being in love. I think that’s what it’s all about, and not the let down. If you’ve gone through life without that feeling, what can I life did you live?

My favorite song is So Amazing by Luther because it’s so true.
By Sincere, February 8, 2010 @ 11:14 PM

I don’t know Mrs. Grapevine;
I’ve been on both sides and I gotta say that first time I fell in love I felt great it was like the best high ever!! But when I fell out of love I felt like a crackhead in the first week of rehab! Just horrible and I never wanted to feel that way again. Now had I never fell in love I wouldn’t have felt that way but I also wouldn’t have felt the high of being in love. Love is for suckas anyway!!! lol just kidding